I admit, I didn't expect much from Gary in the beginning. Maybe the fact that he was neither the only minority nor the only gay cast member should have tipped me off - Big Brother Canada has been more diverse from the jump, and many of its star characters have proven to be much more complex than they seemed at the first impression, for better or for worse.
Gary defies the stereotypes - he knows his role on the show and plays into it with glee, but there's far more to him than meets the eye.
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Gary and Luxury (RIP) |
Those glimmers of strategy and guts are what make Gary so interesting as a player. The first hours of his Head of Household reign were incredible to watch, as he subtly manipulated information out of the entire house and used it to push for what he wanted (Tom's eviction) while making everyone else think it was their idea (no, Alec and Peter, it wasn't).
In many ways, he reminds me of Daniele Donato, who I found to be extremely immature and whiny on Big Brother US Season 8, but transformed into a gutsy, self-assured rebel by Big Brother 13. Britney Haynes also showed a great deal of growth as a player between her young appearance on Big Brother 12 and her slightly older one on Big Brother 14.
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Pwned |
Gary is extremely confident in his own skin. That goes without saying, of course, but there's another layer to it. We've seen so many openly flamboyant men on these shows who harbor insecurity based on years of being bullied and ridiculed for their fabulousness. That kind of thing leaves bitter scars into adulthood, but if Gary wears those scars, he doesn't let them show. He loves who he is, and expects everyone else to love him until they say otherwise. He's not bitter or resentful as a result of his uniqueness, which is probably a credit to his family, who seem to be supportive of him.
Gary does possess one of the fatal flaws of big characters on reality television - he wants to be famous, and discusses it frequently on the feeds. (Seriously, we hate that shit.) When he discusses the fame he wants, though, he often frames it in terms of wanting a platform and a message, instead of wanting to just soak in attention. Obviously he wants the attention, too, but he wants to be a role model.
And he should be.
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Seeing beyond the obvious |
Gary has seen his closest friends go out the door, back to back - Danielle, Suzette, and now possibly Topaz, depending on the outcome of the veto(*)
(*)If you're Alec, who do you get the house to go after, between Topaz and Gary? Both probably hate you to an equal enough extent now, but Gary is the bigger competitor. At the same time, Gary isn't going to freeze you out for the next week, but that may make him more dangerous, so yeah, Gary is probably the target right now.
Despite pressure from the house last week, Gary refused to join the group that was isolating Suzette. As depressing as he found her in the last week, and as much as he knew it was risking his own game to spend time with her, he was unable to adopt Alec's strategy of forgetting that people are human, and did his best to keep her from being entirely isolated during her last days in the house. He knew better than to try and flip the game to save her, but he couldn't bring himself to mix the personal and the game and cut her out like the others, as hard as it was for him.
Despite pressure from the house last week, Gary refused to join the group that was isolating Suzette. As depressing as he found her in the last week, and as much as he knew it was risking his own game to spend time with her, he was unable to adopt Alec's strategy of forgetting that people are human, and did his best to keep her from being entirely isolated during her last days in the house. He knew better than to try and flip the game to save her, but he couldn't bring himself to mix the personal and the game and cut her out like the others, as hard as it was for him.
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I've got a golden ticket |
So where is Gary now? As we saw last night, he now seems to realize that the "Fourgy" alliance he thought he had with Topaz, Peter and Alec is worthless. Either Gary or Topaz will probably go home this week, and Gary has his veto replacement power to play on this week. During last night's feed leak he seemed to be trying to strategize with it, but he and Alec disagreed on its nature, so look for the interpretation of the power to be something Gary plays to his advantage.
If Gary does succeed in rolling through this week, he's got to get over his annoyance with the other houseguests and use his house knowledge to assess the power dynamics and try to forge an alliance from what's left. Peter and Alec aren't going to do it for him, Gary and Talla don't seem to get along, and Emmett and Jillian are untrustworthy. Andrew and Gary have a very weird relationship and Andrew seems to be targeting Gary at the moment, but Andrew's flipped all over the place with Alec and might be willing to work something out. Who knows?
In the meantime, as much as I like both Gary and Topaz, I'm not sure that Topaz has much more to offer to the game once she's unleashed her fury on Alec. Her bridges will be burnt, and her options will be limited. Gary, on the other hand, has the ability to try to slip his way a little closer to the end if he thinks it over and draws on his skills.
Should Gary walk out the door on Thursday, I don't think it will be his last time on reality television. And I'm just fine with that. This world could use few more Garys in it.
Great blog, Karen. I too was surprised by Gary when I saw him play out his HOH. He suddenly became more than just a physical threat. He was a mental one too. Those kind of players can be dangerous if they know how to hone their skills and use them to stomp through to the end. I think you are right though, he has a bit of livin' to do before he knows quite how to use his powers to get all the way through.
ReplyDeleteI also think that barring him winning the veto he will walk this week. Andrew has wanted Gary out for a little while now..ever since Gary kind of turned on him for some reason, and he has stated many times in the past weeks that if he got HOH it would be Gary and someone going up with Gary as the target. I also think putting Gary up was a smart move for Andrew. It not only puts up the person that is after him, but I think it also nullifies Gary's veto ticket. I believe he can only use it to replace another player if he is not already playing in veto, but as a nom, he will obviously already be playing. The good news is that being both a physical and mental threat, and being somewhat on fire about being on the block, there is a good chance Gary might actually win that veto. Then again, as much as Andrew wanted Gary out, he could very well be targeting Topaz since she apparently nominated him with the intention of putting him out and ended up ousting his closest alliance member in the house. So maybe Gary isn't the target. Hmm..
Andrew doesn't really get any say in who the target is, though - he should ask Topaz how that worked out for her the other day... (okay, he probably has somewhat of an idea).
DeleteI agree that the other players should want Gary out, he's much more of a threat, though getting rid of Topaz might end the alarms. Splitting up Gary and Topaz is also not a bad idea from anyone's POV at this point. I think he has a shot at POV today, but you're right, that might be the only shot he has left.
The more I think about it, though, I do think Topaz has an opening to stoke Andrew's paranoia and get a target on Alec if they really compare notes and blow up Alec's game. Is she savvy enough to do that? Maybe. I dunno. If Andrew already did his nominations and put up Gary and Topaz, one will still be on the block no matter who wins POV, and the rest of the house can still send Gary/Topaz out unless they get out there and do some serious gaming.
Sigh. I accept it, the glitter might be leaving on Thursday.